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बुधवार, 27 नवंबर 2013

" To be or not to be" dilemma before the "Indian Girls"

          Since early  childhood  Indian  Girls start facing some kind of harassment. Sometimes they tell  their guardians about this and many times they don't tell. As they grow up and reach the gate of puberty, harassment becomes very common as they go out of house and come back. They learn to ignore it.Often they face some kind of unwanted encounter on regular basis,yet they ignore it; in hope that one day it will  die down.Things come out into open only if water surpasses their head  and they are compelled to open their mouth or when a chance encounter makes their family members come to know of it.Their tormentors take advantage of their habit of ignoring and  continue with what they call " lighthearted banter" which sometimes takes shape of serious harassment and goes to the extent of what we call molestation or sexual harassment.

          It is not that once a girl achieves womanhood and becomes a gracious lady, the problem is over. Everywhere there are some wolves who are on prowl. They are very well  aware of habit of the Indian  Girls of ignoring. First they start with so called "Lighthearted banter" and  when the girl ignores, they take gradually it to other levels and continue till the girl ignores. If at some stage the girl murmurs, now they ignore it and continue with their activities in hope of "Consensual liaison". If they are in position of power they start pressurising or blackmailing the girl.  They are shaken off only if the girl violently protests, otherwise they proceed for the kill.

         As an investigating journalist and father of a grown up daughter the Tahalka Boss  should be well aware of the above analysis & facts . Now, Mr. Tahalka Boss! You should be knowing why the lady journalist, although tormented,  was still behaving normal on 9th of November after the incidences of 7th & 8th November. Every Indian girl, may be she is tormented by someone; when comes back to her house  behaves normal as she doesn't want to trouble her family members and wellwishers with her problems. She achieves perfection in this art of looking normal as a young lady, because she has been practising it since very childhood.

          So it will be be  foolish on your behalf to base your defence on the premises of the girl looking and behaving normal even after the said encounters with you. When a girl faces a predicament due to situations as created by ungentlemanly & lecherous behaviour of someone; she is allways in two minds and faces Shakespearian dilemma of  "to be or not to be", that is to spill  the beans or not, to take corrective steps or not. Sometimes someone's,whom  she confides  in, prodding   is needed to end her predicament and it takes its own course. Till then she behaves normally.So please don't try to befool  the judiciary. I think I've done enough to demolish your defence.

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